Rishte

Achanak se dil ne kaha chalo rishte ko apni nazron se dekhte hain. Rishte ki buniyaad kya hoti hai--- shayad bharosa. shayad? nahi surely bharosa hi hai. wo rishta, rishta hi kaise jismen bharosa na ho.
Bharosa jo toot jaye to rishte ki koi ehmiyat nahi rah jaati, aaj mere saath bhi kuchh aisa hi hua hai. ek rishte par se mera bharosa aaj poori tarah uth gaya hai, aaj wo rishta khatam ho raha hai shayad.
behtar hota hai jab bharosa hi na rahe ho rishte ke naam ko khatm kar diya jaaye, mushkil kaam hai, na jane kaun sa rishta ho. lekin sach hai bharosa bahot zaroori hota hai kisi bhi rishte ke liye. aaj ye rishta meri nazar men bemaayeni ho chuka hai, aisa lag raha hai jaise dhoka aur fareb iski buniyaad hain. kahan hai bharosa, kahan hai rishta? kahan hain rishton ki duhaayi dene wale? sab jhooth hai, dhoka hai, ek fareb hai bas aur kuchh nahi. isse to behtar hai ki insaan paththar ka ban jaaye, rishton se to bach jaayega.

Ishq

Ishq zindagi to nahi, ishq bandagi ka naam hai, ishq jisne kar liya bandagi ko chhoo liya, ishq se shaam-o-sahar, ishq se gulshan dagar, ishq se roshan hai zindagi ka har nagar, ishq jisko ho gaya usne khuda ko pa liya, ishq jiska sar basar phir usko hai kiska dar.

shayad ye lines ishq pe kuchh roshni daal saken.

Jaan nisaar akhtar ne kya khoob kaha hai
Poochh na mujhse dil ke fasane
ishq ki baaten ishq hi jaane

sachmuch ishq ki baaten sirf ishq hi jaanta hai, ishq jo har mazhab se alag hota hai, jo dilon ke beech ka rishta dekhta hai bas. Kahte hain rab ko duniya men sabse zyada ishq pasand hai isiliye ye neyamat rab ne kuchh khaas logo ko hi di hai. Ishq har koi nahi kar sakta, agar koi ye daawa kare ki use ishq ho gaya hai to sabse pahle apne andar jhaank ke dekh le kyonki ishq rooh ko ek ajeeb se ehsaas se sarshaar kar deta hai.
Ishq rooh se judta hai, duniya men ishq ke siwa aisi koi shai nahi jiska seedhe rooh se naata ho. Isiliye ishq har shai se juda hai shayad.

kuchh lines yaad aa gayi jo bilkul sahi bhi hain
Ishq jisne na kiya, khaak duniya men jiya
uska jeevan koi jeevan jaise veeran bastiyaan

Rooh, Ehsaas, Muhabbat aur Zindagi

Rooh, Ehsaas, Muhabbat aur Zindagi. Bada hi gehra naata hai in men.
Muhabbat faani hai lekin wohi faani muhabbat agar rooh se kar li jaaye to ishq kahlaati hai. Ehsaas muhabbat men shaamil rahta hai, ehsaas ke bina muhabbat adhoori hai, gar muhabbat men ehsaas shaamil na ho to muhabbat faani hai.
Rooh, shayad hamara sabse aham hissa, jaan kahte hain jise, muhabbat se jakdi hui hai. Isko bhi ehsaas hota hai, kabhi kuchh paane ka ehsaas kabhi kuchh khone ka ehsaas, rooh bhi ehsaas se tadapti hai.
Jab ham har ehsaas se khali ho jate hain to ye samjho ki zindagi khatm ho gayi hai. Zindagi khud ek bahot bada ehsaas hoti hai, ehsaasaat se khali zindagi bhi koi zindagi hai kahin. Ehsaas to kisi bhi cheez ka ho sakta hai, bhookh ka, pyaas ka, khelne ka, likhne ka, sochne ka lekin ek ehsaas aur bhi hai jo insaan ko khaas bana deta hai, muhabbat ka ehsaas.
Jab ehsaas rooh ko chhoone lagta hai to insaan sach men insaan ban jata hai, jab tak rooh ehsaas se pare hoti hai tab tak insaaniyat bhi door rahti hai.
Rooh aur ehsaas ke sangam ko muhabbat kahte hain shayad, meri samajh men to yehi aata hai. Waise rooh aur ehsaas ka ek aur rishta hai jise zindagi kahte hain, kabhi maine kaha tha kisi se aaj yaad aa gaya

ehsaas ko lafzon men bayaan kya karoge faiz
ehsaas ko rooh se milati hai zindagi

Ehsaas

Dil ki tadap kahen ya kahen rooh ka khumaar
Jo ehsaas se ho labrez to zindagi hai bemisaal

Samajh men nahi aata shuru kahan se karen, ehsaas kahte kise hain ye bhi to nahi pata hai. Jab bhi kahti hoon koi ehsaas ho raha hai khud hi chaunk jaati hoon, are ehsaas hua bhi aur mujhe pata hi nahi ehsaas kya hota hai. Shayad rooh pukaarti hai jab to uski aawaz ko ehsaas kahte hain, ya phir jab dil kisi cheez ki tamanna karta hai tab jo bechaini hoti hai usko ehsaas kahte hain. Jo bhi ho, ye ehsaas hai bahot pyaari cheez, kabhi na kabhi, kahin na kahin sabko ho jata hai.
Ehsaas---dil ko kisi ke aane ka ehsaas hota hai, nigaahon ko kisi ko dekhne ka ehsaas hota hai, rooh ko kisi se milne ka ehsaas hota hai, duniya hi ehsaas hai, mehsoos karne ki baat hai bas.
Is duniya men har ek shai ehsaas se bandhi hui hai, ehsaas wo shai hai jo sabke andar shaamil hai, koi bhi nahi kah sakta ki use kisi baat ka ehsaas nahi hota, ehsaas ko sixth sense bhi kah sakte hain. Aaj mujhe bhi ek ehsaas ho raha hai, shayad zindagi ko bana dene ka ya shayad zindagi ko ganwaa dene ka, bas mehsoos nahi kar pa rahi hoon is ehsaas ko.
Kaash ham is ehsaas ki zubaan ko samajhne lagen to zindagi kitni khushgawaar ho jaye.

Muhabbat

Ek khoobsurat sa ehsaas jismen har shai haseen lagne lagti hai, khamoshi ki aawaz dil ke zyada qareeb ho jati hai, tanhayi men bhi kisi ke saath hone ka ehsaas hone lagta hai, shayad isi ko muhabbat kahte hain.
Jab ham kisi ke liye khud ko badal dete hain, kisi ka saath paane ki khwaahish men bahot door nikal jate hain, anjaane men hi khud se baaten karne lagte hain, muskurane lagte hain, shayad isi ko muhabbat kahte hain.
Jab kisise baaten kiya bina din khali khali lagta ho, jab aankhon men koi chehra jagmag jagmag karta ho, jab koi aawaz sunne ke liye kaan tarasne lagte ho, jab khamoshi men bhi ham us aawaz se baaten karte ho, jab kisi ke aane ki aahat se dil dhadakne lagta hai, shayad isi ko muhabbat kahte hain.
Jab sabke saath men hote hue bhi ham khud ko tanha lagte hain, jab tanhayi men ham khud ko unki mehfil men paate hain, jab saamne unke aate hi nazren ghayal ho jaati hain, aise men ye kyon lagta hai jaise ham unse darte hain, shayad isi ko muhabbat kahte hain.

Intezaar

Abhi abhi aayi yahan, aate hi na jaane kyon ek ajeeb sa ehsaas hone laga.
Intezaar shayad cheez hi aisi hoti hai, kitna mushkil hota hai intezaar karna. Wo bhi jab aapke paas bolne ke liye bahot kuchh ho aur aapko sunne wale ka intezaar karna pade.

Kitna lamba hota hai ye intezaar, waqt hi nahi kat-ta hai. Sochti hoon ki kuchh aur karoon lekin karoon bhi to kya. Lamhe muththi se raat ki tarah phisalte jaate hain, ek ek pal bojhal hone lagta hai, jaane kaisa hai ye intezaar.

Sochti hoon un logo ke baare men jo apni saari zindagi kisi ke intezaar men bita dete hain. Kaise log hote hain wo? Aaj tak samajh nahi paayi hoon shayad hi kabhi samajh men aaye ye baat.

Aaj subah kuchh der ke liye ghar se nikli thi, dekha meri gali men hi ek uncle hain budhe se jo apne bete ka intezaar kar rahe hain. Na jane kitne saal se unko aise hi dekh rahi hoon. Intezaar karte hue.

jab apne rabbits ke saath khelti hoon to wo bhi apne khulne ki baari aane ka intezaar karte hain. Ek ke khulte hi doosra bhi baith jata hai ki ab iske baad mujhe bhi khulna hai, ye bhi ek roop hai intezaar ka.

Kuchh nahi milta to maine socha kuchh likh hi daalte hain is intezaar ke upar lekin wo bhi nahi samajh men aaya. Aayega bhi kaise main bhi to yehi kar rahi hoon, INTEZAAR. Jaane kab khatm hoga ye intezaar.

Friendship

Originally posted on October 1, 2006. Just retrieving here

Rare as is true love, true friendship is rarer.
I find it true, as nowadays it seems very difficult to find friends. We may find companions, who can share only our leisure times and most of happy days only. Most of us even don't know the meaning of friendship, they think spending time, talking, chatting and watching movies together is friendship.
But friends, friendship is a spiritual inspiration that come to us when we discover that someone else is believing in us and is willing to trust us with his friendship. The pleasure we derive from friendship is often greater than that which we gain from the most stupendous grandeur of nature.
Jeremy Taylor had quoted, By friendship we mean the greatest love, the greatest usefulness, the most open communication, the noblest sufferings, the severest truth, the heartiest counsel and the greatest union of minds which brave men and women are capable.
If we wish to make friends, we need to develop the qualities which attract noble qualities in others. The richest reward and the deepest satisfaction of friendship consists in giving fully at all times the best of oneself to one's friends without thought of the extent to which it may or may not be reciprocated.
It is a matter of wholehearted giving, an attitude which is far more likely to elicit an equally general response.
So if you are a true friend of someone, please not only spend your leisure time with him but also try to respect his feelings too. It is the greatest reward we can give to our friends.

Khwahishen

Hazaron khwahishen aisi ki har khwahish pe dam nikle.....................................
I don't know why poeple stuck to expectations. A saying is 'Do more expect little', but I think in today's scenario it has changed into 'Expect more do little'
In my view yeh duniya hai matlab paraston ki duniya really yaar, dont laugh- take it seriously. Here poeple use other poeples and after using them throw them out. No one cares for the other. Everybody wants to be on top, for it they can do any thing.

Lets see our politicians yaar. I feel very sorry for the public who choose them. What are they doing? Only luring us na. By the times of elections, they always promise to develop the nation, to remove poverty, to remove unemployment.............. but when they win they must forget it. Instead they are helping in increasing unemployment here. For example------- the UP Gvt is now giving Berozgari Bhatta to the unemployed youth, instead of providing them job. The Govt is making them lazy. Lazy??????? why??????????? because, when they are getting money without doing any work, then why should they do anything. What is this???????? It is only for increasing their vote bank and to increase unemployment here. As I had stated earlier that it is a very matlab parast duniya. We are expecting from them and they are giving us too, but we have to pay so much for this expectation.

See in general, only few people here are good, we all are full of selfishness. When we involve in any relationship we began to expect more from our partner instead of giving we always expect. In friendship too, we only expect from our friends without doing something for them. The meaning of friendship has also changed now, if your friend is satisfying you then only you have a good friend...what is this? Where are friends like Krishna and Sudama?

Hey all of you, think once seriously about this matter and if I am wrong please tell me. I am awaiting your suggestions here. Feel free to comment on it.

Saathi

Aaj na jaane kyon dil udaas sa hai, kuchh samajh men nahi aa raha ki hua kya hai. Jawab mila main tujhse door hoon na isliye tujhe aisa lag raha hai. Ye baat mere ek telephonic conversation se hai. Ek baar baithe baithe achanak se dil kiya rone ka, dil kiya kisi se haal-e-dil share karne ka, bas dil hi kiya tha ki phone ki ghanti bajne lagi, dekha mere best friend ka phone hai. Hi hello ke baad poochhne laga mujhe jaane kyon aisa laga tha jaise u need me this time. I was amazed, how he got to know it. Sach hai ki us time mujhe shiddat se ehsaas ho raha tha ki i need my friend.
Shayad dost aise hi hote hain, ek dost hai jise jaante hue abhi mujhe zyada din nahi hue hain, lekin jab bhi dil ghabraata hai wo jaane kahan se khushiyaan lekar chala aata hai. Kuchh is tarah se ki main rote rote hansne lagti hoon. Dua karti hoon Allah se ki aisa dost sabhi ko mile.........lekin agar aisa dost sabhi ko milne laga to sab meri tarah ho jaayenge.
Ye maine kyon bola kyonki mere is dost ka influence hai ki main kuchh bhi karne se pahle isse zaroor poochhti hoon, aur aaj tak isne jo bhi bataya hai wo sahi hua hai. Lucky me.
Aaj jab online aayi to bahot khush thi, phir kuchh aisa hua ki dil se dua karne lagi ki ye dost aa jaye, aur dil ki dua thi ki wo aa gaya. Mood jo kharab hua tha wo sahi ho gaya ekdam se. Ham kabhi kabhi selfish se ho jaate hain lekin bahot kam log maine aise dekhe hain jo ki selfish nahi hote atleast hamare saath. Aanindya mera dost, ek aisa hi insaan hai. Ab aadat si pad gayi hai uske saath apni baaton ko share karne ki, hansne ki, leg pulling karne ki aur jitni main karti hoon utni hi wo bhi karta hai meri.
Lucky feel karti hoon khud ko jab dekhti hoon ki jab bhi akeli ho jati hoon mere dost mere saath hote hain. Dua hai Aanindya aur Karan jaise dost har kisi ko milen jo khushiyon men hi nahi aapki zaroorat ke waqt men bhi jab aap bilkul maayus rahen tab bhi aapka saath na chhoden.
Love u both Aani and Karan, both r unique for me.